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7 Effective Ways To Chat up A Girl

August 9th, 2008 · No Comments

by Benjamin Wise

1. Ask an opinion. A good way to begin a conversation with a girl you would like to talk to is to ask her opinion about something. Women like to know that someone cares about what they think and that their opinion matters. This is a great way to start a conversation.

2. Seek their assistance with something. Women like to feel wanted and needed, so if you ask for their help and if the request is not too complicated then you will find that they will eagerly want to help you. The key of course is to keep it simple.

3. Compliment her. If you want to chat up a girl then compliment her. Women love to hear compliments and positive things about their appearance. Tell her you love her hair, her skirt, or a purse that compliments her. This can lead to you asking her where she got it and so on.

4. Get her a drink. There is nothing original about this strategy but it works nonetheless. When you offer her a drink, don’t be cocky or brash about it. By the way this can take place anywhere it does not have to be alcohol either.

5. Ask her to dance. Most public places have music playing over speakers. If a good song comes on then ask her to dance. It might sound crazy, silly, or even be a little romantic, but she just might. However, if she doesn’t dance with you then she may stick around to talk.

6. Say “Hi”, you do not have to be a genius to come up with this one, sometimes it is the simple things in life can make all the difference, don’t as mentioned over complicate or over think it, just do it and see what happens, she may take up the conversation and run with it.

7. Don’t get your underwear in a twist, do not take yourself too seriously, you know we all have fears and it is through our common humanity that we can strike up a relationship. Enjoy, and relax.

Chatting up a girl is not as hard as some guys make it out to be. If you want to talk to a girl then be natural and be yourself.

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